A Life Of An Entrepreneur: Dealing With The Selfish (FE-MALES) You And I

So it's my first article on my life as an entrepreneur and a student.
In my previous post I said that the write ups I will be sharing under this will be all about my life as an OBAFEMI AWOLOWO UNIVERSITY (OAU) student, my life as a demographer in the making and the characters of friends and people have come in contact with in my recent years of being in the university.

So today, I'll be talking about the selfish ladies and males that have caused confusions in their lifes due to little pleasures.
Just few days before the End of the year (NASU) break which sent so many packing, I and omo ghana  as he is popular known and called were having just a normal guys talk,  sharing ideas and hoping to accomplish one of those ideas as usual began to discuss our mutual attractions and feelings.

As we continued, our mutual dislikes also popped in and guess what it was
about those unreal females who over hype themselves and end up acting fake and selfish. Those feelings we shared about these ladies were just as if our 💭 thoughts were the same as we poured out our hearts telling their crazy characters and how no one is ready to help.

I can't forget the short, dark, dwarfy like muscled young chubby lady, who surprisingly we had this same dislike for due to her messy and over classy character, we couldn't help but laugh because she always hopped like a kangaroo just the same way we thought. The fact is why will there be an individual who would only say "hello" only when she is in need and behave like your enemy after the deal is done.

I understand everyone can't be friends, but that doesn't mean the few ones around you should be your enemy or you should feel more classy than the rest.
Anyone who feels too classy and it begins to pop out little by little in her character won't be worth a thing sooner or later.
Fake ladies always end up losing even sometimes it feels like they are winning.

Now, generally average human beings (Male or Female) are naturally greedy but that doesn't mean we should end up being selfish.
On campus I've met with friends who have made me understand that being selfish would only cause delays and failure, it's gonna lead you nowhere.

Sometimes you need help, you ask for help and they are too busy wanting to get that prizes and will never release that material
They are too busy wanting to get that glory and will never share with you those key points they have found
They are too busy trying to  be in the picture but will never want to hold the lights
Too arrogant trying to show their class and will never want to say hello
They are so selfish to others that the only thing they want to see his them and​ them and them, the fact is they can never move forward.

Selfishness only causes delays and brings evil thoughts
You begin to hear things in your mind like you are too big for this, too big for that, to young for this too old for that too good to handle this and then you end not using your gift or not even knowing you have one at all.

The fact is once you don't know your gift,  you can't use it, once you can't use your gift you are imprisoned. Selfishness imprisons your gift and once you can't use that gift in you, you can't come out of that prison.

Just like Joseph who was in the prison he had to use his gift to come out and become significant, 

Gen 41:14 -24 14Then Pharaoh sent and called for Joseph, and they hurriedlybrought him out of the dungeon; and when he had shaved himself and changed his clothes, he came to Pharaoh. 15Pharaoh said to Joseph, "I have had a dream, but no one can interpret it; and I have heard it said about you, that when you hear a dream you can interpret it."…

There are a lot of us who have amazing gifts in us and we fail to use it due to that selfish nature and desire, we fail to deal with our selfish desires because we want the whole world to ourselves and end up being the loser in the end.  Try to Change, help and associate with others as you know A drop 💧 of water can make a mighty Ocean.

                         PRAYER